The Pleasures Of Dating An Older Woman
March 12th, 2008 by GiGi
She is Cougar, Hear Her Roar!
Compliments of SexualForte.com
If you’ve been dating for any length of time, you’ve likely met a terrific woman who’s everything you want except for one thing-she’s older than you. Significantly older. She might have five years on you, or even fifteen years, but before you write her off because she wasn’t born in the same decade as you were, take some time to consider all the benefits of dating an older woman.
The most obvious benefit is her maturity. How many bad dates with a hot girl have you had to endure, spending hours listening to the differences between lip gloss and lipstick, just to get ho-hum some sex at the end of the night? Fortunately the older woman has more important things to think about than makeup, namely you.
Despite what you might think, the older woman is far from desperate and can definitely give you a more interesting evening than a twenty-something who just wants to talk about her own petty problems. And you won’t have to worry about the older woman embarrassing you at the office Christmas party with some wildly inappropriate comment to your boss-she knows how to react in any social situation and will make you look good too just by being in her company.
And let’s not forget the financial benefits. Most women in their thirties and beyond are securely set in their chosen career and reaping the benefits of a healthy salary. This is good for you, since she won’t be relying on you to pay for everything. She’s not looking for a meal ticket-she’s looking for a partner. She probably already owns a home, has a good car and can afford to spread a little cash around. Want to spend the weekend in Vegas, living it up at the Blackjack tables? A twenty-year old waitress isn’t going to be able to pay her own way but your cougar has her bags packed and the Visa Gold card warmed up and ready to send a little money your way.
Women hit their sexual prime when they are older, so don’t be surprised if you learn a bunch of new bedroom tricks from your more experienced partner. She might have ten or even fifteen years more sexual experience than you do, so just buckle up and enjoy the ride! And although her body might not be as tight as it once was, she will definitely know what to do with it. And she’ll want to do it often. Let her be your eager teacher and you will take those newfound sexual skills away with you for the rest of your life.
An older woman really is in tune with her body. She knows how to get what she wants and head games don’t come into play in the bedroom-she doesn’t expect you to read her mind. Instead, she will tell you (or better yet, show you) exactly what turns her on. Because she’s been playing between the sheets a lot longer, she is more apt to be sexually open-minded and eager to try out the toys, lotions and costumes necessary to make your sexual dreams come true.
With a certain age comes self-acceptance. An older woman realizes that she’ll never be perfect, so she doesn’t waste her time fussing over what she can’t change. Instead, she spends her time being the best that she can be. Of course she is still going to exercise and eat right to make the most of what she’s got, but the cougar loves herself completely and isn’t looking for you to build up a fragile self-esteem.
With a younger girlfriend, you might have felt that she was always looking for someone better than you, the next great thing. Luckily, that’s not the case with the older woman. Sure of herself and what she is looking for in a partner, the older woman knows you are exactly what she wants. And if she decides that you aren’t what she wants anymore, she’ll end it quickly and not keep you hanging on until someone better comes along. This doesn’t mean that you can sit back and not put any effort into the relationship though-the older woman doesn’t put up with any crap and she’ll drop you fast if you’re not living up to your end of the relationship bargain.
Maybe you’re worried that an older woman is aching to have a baby and will try to pin you down. This probably isn’t true if she is divorced and has kids already. Either she definitely wants more kids or she knows that her family is complete. Either way, her mind is made up for good-she’s not going to wake up one morning and spring it on you that she’s changed her mind all of a sudden, like a younger woman might.
The older woman probably isn’t even looking for a commitment from you as she knows that she can make it on her own. If she’s been burned by a bad past relationship, she is going to want to play the field and not settle down with the first guy who comes along. She is definitely choosier and she’s going to take her time before getting serious again. If you’re more than a decade younger than she is, she is probably only looking to have some fun with you and isn’t thinking about making you husband number two anyway.
Now that you’ve realized your options and you’re open to dating a whole new variety of woman, your playing field has dramatically increased. So strike up a conversation with that sexy cougar you see every day at the gym and get set to listen to her roar. If you play your cards right, you’ll have her purring in no time.
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