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I received an email the other day with one of my surfers bitching about all the work entailed in getting signed up with EHarmony. (it’s like filling in an application to get into the CIA!)

Duh! If you’re expecting to find a date, a friend or a serious relationship, you need to wake up. A little effort is involved in the process. This is a job! You need to approach your search for a partner the same way you’d approach a search for a new job.

I know it would be great if we could order a new partner or mate like we place our take out orders at restaurants.

• I take one kind, considerate, humorous, caring lover please looking for a long term relationship
• Make him tall and athletic with abs to die for
• I’ll have a side of a large bank account
• Thanks, and oh, I’m kind of in a hurry so can you ask the chef to put in my order ASAP?

Attention to details, my friends, is the key. You online profile is your gateway to catching yourself an online relationships. The online dating sites such as EHarmony like many other dating sites, Friendfinder, Match.com, Date.com give you plenty of opportunities to catch some interest. They key is taking a little time to draft your “Heading” (after all this is what you potential date is going to see first) and write and rewrite that “Online Profile” to express yourself.

Most people expect that the 2 minutes they spend on submitting their profile will be enough to warrant some interest in their profile. You’re living in a dream world if you think a couple of minutes of your time will reap you any meaningful rewards.

I don’t care if you’re over 40 or over the hill, to find a date, a lover or a friend you need to go back to all those online profiles you have and write and rewrite until you’ve captured the essence of who you are and what you’re looking for……

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